Remote-control sex toys bring a powerful mix of anticipation, control, and intimacy to couples of all kinds. Whether you’re in the same room or a time zone apart, these toys create playful tension and unforgettable climaxes—with one partner in charge of the buttons, and the other surrendering to sensation.
Why Remote-Control Toys Are Game-Changers
- Build erotic tension over time
- Add excitement to date nights or public play
- Stay connected during long-distance relationships
- Explore dominance, submission, and trust dynamics
- Make partner-controlled orgasms possible—even hands-free
What to Look For in a Remote-Control Toy
Low Noise Level
Essential for discreet play in public or shared spaces.
Strong, Rumbly Vibrations
Surface buzz feels weak—deeper vibrations hit harder and more satisfyingly.
App Control Options
Perfect for long-distance couples or those who enjoy playing with tech.
Body-Safe Materials
Look for medical-grade silicone or smooth ABS plastic for comfort and hygiene.
Best Remote-Control Toys for Couples
Lovense Lush 3
A wearable internal G-spot vibe controlled by app or Bluetooth. Super powerful, quiet enough for public play, and one of the most popular for a reason.
We-Vibe Chorus
Dual-motor wearable vibrator for penetration play. Controlled by app, squeeze sensor, or handheld remote. Comfortable and powerful.
Lelo Tor 3
A vibrating cock ring that delivers pleasure to both partners. Waterproof, rechargeable, and controlled by remote.
Satisfyer Love Triangle
Combines clitoral suction with vibration. Quiet, compact, and controlled via Satisfyer’s app. Excellent for public or private use.
Lovense Nora + Max 2 Combo
The Nora rabbit vibe syncs with Max 2, a male stroker, for interactive long-distance play. Ideal for couples separated by distance.
How to Use Remote-Control Toys as a Couple
In Person
- Try using a toy during dinner, at the movies, or while dancing
- Keep a discreet signal or safe word for comfort and control
- Build arousal slowly before returning home for the main event
Long-Distance
- Use the app to control your partner’s toy during sexting or video calls
- Schedule “toy dates” just like real dates
- Explore edging, denial, or orgasm challenges together
Tips for Better Control Play
- Charge everything fully beforehand
- Test app connectivity before the moment matters
- Always agree on boundaries ahead of time
- Combine with dirty talk or shared fantasies to deepen the connection
Final Thoughts
Remote-control sex toys are about more than just getting off—they’re about trust, anticipation, and shared experience. They give you the power to tease, please, and dominate—or surrender. No matter the distance between you, these toys bring you closer.